To all, Life can be difficult and some make it like that. Yes, we are all different. It is true that the grass does seem greener on the other side..... Bottom line is, would you, yourself want to be deceived by the one you thought was the love of your life? The answer is a clear no. Therefore, the way I operate is look, flirt and even a bit more as the case may be but don't deceive. If you are really stuck in a rut and most people are not but just want something different, be open and honest and walk out before you start to cheat.
That's a good message. Always be honest. Or has JBP would say: always tell the truth, or at least don't lie. I often look at the menu so to speak, but I don't order from it.