No. On the surface they may give a false appearance, but underneath they are always the same, whatever that may be.
my wife is going through the change! And as a caterpillar turns into a beautiful butterfly, I am hoping for a 20 year old Swedish Gymnast
I take it you don't mean 'gender reassignment' then Anyway, don't narrow your dreams to a gymnast - loads of others to choose from ...... Volleyball player for one
Its probably best if i stay of, or start a 'Should I Stay or Should I go' thread Now I know how miss pickles felt...
JT if it is depression that you're going through you have my sincere sympathies,I suffered it for years,and PTSD.Think positive and try not to dwell on things too much,I know it's easy to say but have a go,I won't say I know how you feel because I don't,depression is a very personal thing,yes I may have an idea,after all I've been there myself,however we're all individuals with individual issues and that's why nobody knows exactly what someone else is thinking.One thing is certain mate,the answer is not at the bottom of a bottle,so please don't go there.There are more people with mental health issues than you'd believe,I know about 10 sparks who are friends of mine and we're all "fruit loops" as we jokingly call ourselves,a couple are alcoholics,and the rest have had or are having some kind of breakdown.If you can laugh at yourself it helps,I had a signature on one forum "you only think you're mad,I've a doctors letter to prove it".There will be dark times,I've sat alone with tears streaming down my cheeks and didn't know why,If you have the support of a good partner it can help a lot,talk to them,they need to know what you are feeling,I told my wife to leave on several occasions,she didn't and she helped me through a lot of it,sometimes holding my hand,sometimes just being there and saying nothing.Doctors are ok for some things but you need a buddy here going through this,a few of us have a buddy system and we can ring each other up day or night and bend each others ears.Sometimes it's just about having someone who'll not judge you,who you can talk to and understands.Depression is no respector of who you are,it can hit annyone from the richest to the poorest,and remember it isn't a weakness,it's ok to cry,to let it out,I was a real ruffty tuffty bloke,a proper mans man.I never thought it would get me but it did,it lasted years,I'm still not 100% but I'm a lot better.If you want to talk pm me your number and I'll ring you. Take care pal.
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