Does it make a difference if it was 30 years ago? A crime is a crime and the offender must be seen to pay for it. However, I would hang out of the back of her even though she's in her forties
In the 70s bedding a 13 year old was considered arty. Fortunately the law has a long arm and a long memory - especially after that recent film on Polanski made the American judiciary look rather foolish.