Urgent Advice Needed

Discussion in 'Just Talk' started by RoadToNoWhere, Nov 10, 2018 at 9:14 PM.

  1. RoadToNoWhere

    RoadToNoWhere New Member

    I’m going mad thinking my husband has some absolutely gross and unpleasant habits that I cannot stand it anymore but feeling like I am supposed to remember that no one is perfect.

    I have tried bringing these things up and talking to him nicely and also very firmly, but I’ve got nowhere with that. I’m too embarrassed to ask people in real life what they think and I want to know, am I being unreasonable to be so annoyed? He is 31, we have been married for a year and his behavior only started going off after we got married.

    I’m old enough and have enough experience with men, I understand it’s normal but he thinks it is OK to just ŵank it off in the bedsheets when I’m out! I came back and noticed a pungent smell, sat down on the bed and realized my hands was on a damp patch.

    He kept doing it even after I complained. Rather, he got really ratty saying it was impossible I could know, and started accusing me of sniffing the bedsheets, this is really gross.

    He leaves laundry all over the floor, leaves mountains of plates in the sink, throws tea bags at the freshly painted walls and doesn’t quite shower enough. When I couldn’t stand it anymore and confronted him over the issues, he yelled “I don’t like being told what to do!”

    Worse of all, my husband doesn’t enjoy spending quality time with me, Instead of some romantic cuddle time, he prefers to watch YouTube videos and read all evening.

    I really don’t understand what’s going on. I’ve tried to ask him very tactfully if there’s a problem, he gets annoyed and insists there isn’t.

    I tried suggesting counselling but he went ballistic so I don’t think that’s an option. Sometimes I feel I’m even detecting a hint of dislike/contempt for me but I have no idea why. I feel like I’m dealing with an angry teenage boy and I don’t know how I didn’t pick up on all of this sooner.

    Please help, I’m loosing my marbles
  2. gadget man

    gadget man Well-Known Member

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  3. HarDeBloodyHarHar

    HarDeBloodyHarHar Active Member

    Are you really ugly?
  4. Jord86

    Jord86 Well-Known Member

    Sweetheart, was he like this when you married him? Because if he was you must have been really really thick.
  5. chippie244

    chippie244 Well-Known Member

    As trolls go this is quite lightweight.
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  6. KlausK

    KlausK New Member

    This site has some seriously weird trolls. Oh well, Xmas is coming, maybe it'll be dwarves next.

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